Friday, 6 July 2012


One thing I notice is that a couple's sleeping position tells much about the relationship.It either helps or damages the relationship between the partners.
I know when we sleep,we are close to unconscious to what ever happens around that moment,but like they say,practice makes perfection.
If you want better chances in keeping your Man/Woman,follow these few tricks.
1.THE SPOON-Women love this position.It makes them feel sexy and physically attracted to their male partner.Genitals against buttocks,is best for one of those nights when the partners want physical closeness but not sex.
2.HONEYMOON HUG-This is very common in early month relationships.The partners are just getting used to each other.They are very dependent and in love with each other.I call it "young in love".Lol!the bad thing is that it lasts for just few weeks.
3.SWEETHEART CRADLE-One thing I know is that it's every woman's best style.She feels very secure,she is safe in the arms of her man.She feels much in love when she is sleeping close to his heart especially after sex,you don't need to tell her "I love you"she already knows.It is easier to give a kiss on the forehead before you wish her a good night.It is actually my best and a lot others' too.
4.LOOSELY TETHERED-Here you notice just one partner is involved.Maybe she has something on her mind that she doesn't want to mention.Give her little space but not too much.Let her know you respect that but you are still there if she wants to talk.Notice the space between the partners with just one hand on the other's waist.Don't worry,she would move closer later at night.
5.LEG HUG-This is common after a fight.I don't call it a sleeping position,I call it a's time for someone to say "I am sorry" lol.Despite the fight between the partners,they both are still dependent and physically attracted to each other but can not move closer or hug because of self pride.Nobody wants to be the one to say "I Am sorry",after all,we were right.
6.THE PURSUIT-This is every man's best.It is normal to think in a relationship,it is the male partner that should do the holding and cuddling.That is actually selfish.They don't only want to hold,but also be held as well.Unusually as it is,they also want security.They think a lot,so much on their mind that they get carried away and might forget to sleep right.The lady might also expect the man to move closer and these might result to the ZEN STYLE.You don't expect the man to say "hold me"it's unmanly to them,lol,but that is what they need and want at that moment.So if you are the lady,Move closer and hold your man.Let him know there is nothing to worry about,or someone else might do it for you.
7.THE CLIF HANGER AND THE GRAB-These are two very disturbing position.Notice how they both can't stand to stay with each other.A bigger bed is recommended to avoid falling off,lol.It is a bad way to start a relationship because closeness after this might be difficult.Try to avoid or rather be conscious of these.It is common for relationships after 5 years.

No matter the sleeping position,Love matters a lot,Communication is necessary and Tolerance shouldn't be left out.

No comments:

Post a Comment